| Location | Hampshire |
| Age | 38 years |
| Date of Birth | 4/1968 |
| Date of Death | 8/2006 |
| Visitors | 911 since 22/07/2008 |
| Creator |
Wendy Lisabeth Allen
Who passed away on 12th August 2006
Aged 38
Insurance clerk for Royal Bank of Scotland
Wendy passed away at Southend Hospital, although her home address was 76 South View Rise, Alton in Hampshire.
Wendy left behind two sisters, a step sister and three step brothers.
Three niece's and six nephews. And a step mum.
Wendy passed away from cancer of the bowels.
Wendy was a very HAPPY person, who lived life to the fullest. She spent a lot of time around the Coventry area, Where she met and maintained a good relationship with her best friend Rebeca Burke.
Wendy was a very live wire and was the soul of all the good times. We were a very close family and when we lost our father Martin John Allen, we all took it realy hard especialy Wendy, they were so close.
Wendy eventualy started to pick herself up and started to live her life again, moving on for the grief that our dad had left behind.
It wasn't long after this that Wendy was told of her cancer. She didn't let it get her down though and this made her even more determained to live. She would often shoplift at this point and when asked why she'd done it, she would simply say "Well I'm dying anyway"
Her zest for life was contaminating and she would infect anyone with her laughter and energy. She was so brave. She even arranged her own funeral to take the presure off of us and also because she wanted it all done just so.
Wendy was given a trip by the Make a dream wish Foundation, and was sent in a limousine to the Mama Mia, Theatre performence in London where they treated her like first class. She thoroughly enjoyed the day as she also spent it with her brother Kevin whom she adored and called her prince.
Sometimes she'd get tired due to the illness, and she would often lay down and say "Maybe I'll go today" and we'd always reply not today. Although we knew that Wendy was dying none of us could really face the fact that she was going to leave. None of us could prepare for life without her.
Myself and my sister Julie was there on the day that she came into the world and sadly although thankfully there the day she left us too. Kevin was there as was her friend Stephanie. We all held her hand as she breathed her last breath and departed. This was extremely hard for us all but we were lucky to be there together.
Wendys wishes was granted on everything that needed to be done after she died, we put her name next too dad's on his plaque and scattered her close to him. I believe that she is happy now and dad is embracing her in a place that I hope she feels no pain.
It was Wendy's 40th this year and we celebrated this by having a liberating party at her graveside we laughed about all the good times. Keeping our chin up as thats what she would of wanted.
Her favourite flower was a sunflower and for this reason I now have one tatooed on my back as does our sister Julie.
Loyalty me lie.... Our family moto meaning loyalty binds us!!!!!!!
I Hope your somewhere over your rainbow.
I know you'll be there for me when it's my turn so I'll see you soon. xxxx
hi my little sis its cold and snowy and i wish you was here remember all the fun we had playing snowball fight wish i could get to the cemetry before christmas but dont think i will so i am sending my love hope dad with u as i,m sure he is happy christmas love u always xxxxx loyalte me lie yr lovin sis jenny
4 years
my darling angel miss you so much its been 4 years since you left me the fun and the giggles we had i cherish went to the cemetry and left you your favourite flowers why writting this i am listening to your tune alot better than shayne ward lol that you had at your funeral god bless sweet dreams love you always your sister jenny loyalty to me lie xxxxxx
your anniversary
thinking of you today sis been to the cemetry and put some gladiolios down white of course just like in your wedding bouquet.... sleep tight my darling sister
love always jenny and ricky and lisa xxx
my angel
hi sis my life is still so empty without you [ w[sh i could cuddle you and woulo love to have a glass of blossom hill rose of course hopeing to go bosworth in september still think of you that day and how hard it was for you as me saying goodbye to dad i never thought i would lose you to but i know you are together i have a kitten called oscar and i truly belive that you and dad sent him to me to give me someone to love dug out your pictures of inky your cat and valor your dog never forget when inky was ran over and she lost a leg you didnt care about money just that she was ok who would of thought me a pet owner we all send you our love and miss you so much keep seeing a white butterfly everywhere i go hope its you hope the angels are looking after you love forever your sister jenny xxxxxxxx
miss you loads woo
hi honey, missing you loads still, it never gets any easier not having you here. I was in coventry at the weekend and went to your old flat, i just wanted to knock the door and you open it, just like old times.. . louis is growing up quickly, but is a lovely boy so soft and caring....we talk about you a lot and he still remembers you, i chuckled to myself the other day remembering you and your 'love puffs' lol i'm sure anyone reading this will know what i'm talking about..i'm so glad i got to spend your last week with you even sleeping in the chair beside you in the hospital, i would never have forgiven myself if i had not seen you that week and you tried to talk me out of coming over as you had your funeral arrangements and everything to do but you didn't realise you had so little time left... always thinking of you honey, miss you so much. forever friendsxxx
Thinking of you always
Darling Wendy, I miss you babe. The stars are very lucky to have you darling. I have your photograph in up in my living room and it fell a few times. Your sis Jenny then called me.....I knew it was you. I have just logged on to this website and started this tribute and the lights just flashed (no joke...ask my clayton who has just gone pale) and again I know it is you. I miss us running around under the washing lines at 3am after fatty arbucles and getting ready and using one of your 150 different lipsticks.
I miss you WOO.
Boo x x x
i wish igot to meat you seem's so nice fro m what iv'e heard im clairs son lots of love scott xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Im a god mother
Just wanted to let you know that ive finally become a god mother!! and i know it would be something that you would be really proud of me for.Her name is Demi-may and we even had nice weather for the day. Wonders will never cease! It would of been lovely for you to have been there and for you to have met her but i know you were there watching x
Love you always sis Jenny xxx
see you round like a doughnut!!!!
always in my heart
woo i miss you soo much..every time i see a rainbow i see you, you would be so proud of your godson if you were here today but i know your looking down on him, he has never forgotten you. there is not a day goes by that i'm not thinking of you, i was so glad i was there for you, it was a great frienship we had for 20 years, no matter the distance between us we were always there for each other when we needed to be. it still breaks my heart that you are gone. thinking of you always babes, love and miss you soo much...your forever best friendxxxxxxx
wendys 2nd anniversary
two years have gone little sister and yet the pain pf losing you makes it seems like it was only yesterday. it is stil so unfair that you were taken so young you should have had so many long happy years left. i think of you all the time wendy not just the sad times but all the wonderful happy memories i have of you, they are so many that it wold take all night to write down but one of the funniest memories we both remembered was when you were living on canvey and you came out with me and my mates to basildon clubbing and at end of night i went home and had forgotton about you and then you got a lift to the indian we were at and we all laughed so much. glad you saw the funny side of it but that was you all over. i miss those nights out with you so much. annie thomas and malcolm send thier love to you and all have their special memories of you. say hi to dad for me i miss you both so much. kisses and hugs to you both. loving you both so very much always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxwedys
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